Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.
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Results eventually expose patterns. Your habits speak louder than your wishes.
Wanting a different life is easy. Becoming the kind of person who can sustain it is the real work. That is where change usually stalls or succeeds.
Allen's core argument is moral and psychological: inner formation shapes outward experience. Whether taken literally or not, it is a sharp corrective to passive wishing.
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